Nobody likes to think about their kids looking at pornography, but the fact is, most men in recovery claim to have seen their first glimpse of porn at a young age. It’s very sad, but very true. One of the biggest concerns I have is that spouses just don’t talk to their kids about sex and equip them to handle sexual temptations that will inevitably arise.
There are two extremes that many parents fall into when it comes to talking to their kids about sex. On one hand, some parents just don’t say anything at all. They don’t have “the talk” until their 17-year-old is already having sex with their boyfriend or girlfriend, and even then, the conversations are awkward and have limited information or spiritual value.
Then you have the parents who talk about sex as if it’s dirty, gross, and disgusting. They make sex sound like a one-way ticket to hell, where STDs are abundant and true love is scarce.
Neither of these extremes is beneficial to the child, nor do they prepare them for choices they will need to make when it comes to sex and sexual temptations – the kinds of choices you as husband and wife have …read more
Read the full article here: http://www.xxxchurch.com/parents/your-kids-will-treat-sex-the-way-you-treat-sex.html